Cheating is not as simple as it seems

Cheating doesn't necessarily mean that it's only legit in whatever that is mentioned in the next sentence.

' When you meet someone of the opposite gender and have sex with them behind your bf/gf/wife/husband's back '

I believe that an explanation to the above sentence is not needed, because it's an obvious way of cheating that many brainless people still does it behind their other half's back. It's as bad as going to the red-light district and pay money to a prostitute to fuck them for an hour or so, or even spending more money looking for a social escort to spend time with them and ending the meet-up with sex.

Honestly, i do not know why some people just doesn't put themselves in their partner's shoe when they start doing things that are considered as cheating. They claim that it's not cheating but little do they know, cheating could be cheating in many ways.

The moment you started texting someone (flirting or not & be it via whatsapp, facebook or instagram or twitter chat, wechat, line chat, or whatever chatting platforms you can think of) and then you delete the msg away because you do not want your partner to see the msg, it's already a part of cheating. Messaging an opposite gender that your partner dislikes secretly is also considered as cheating (there must be a reason why they don't like this particular someone) and whats more, meeting up with them? The best part is, when you are flirting with them, and you find yourself complaining about your partner to that particular someone you are flirting with, bringing down the reputation of your partner in other people's eyes like as if you are suffering alot being tgt with him/her, acting so miserable while trying to gain sympathy from that person you are trying to flirt with, it's also considered as cheating.

Like hello? If you don't feel happy being tgt with your partner, then break up! Whats there to whine about man? Break up and be tgt with whoever you are flirting with because your interest has obviously been diverted to the person you are flirting with, and no longer the one whom you claim that you love anymore. Don't beg your partner back after destroying her reputation like that because it makes no sense at all.

Next, you are also considered as you're cheating when you start changing your passwords because your partner knows them and you do not want them to look into your phone details and everything. Or even tilting your phone to one side whereby your partner who is right next to you can't be able to see your screen.

Cheating is not just about people, the opposite gender. Any lies or secrets hidden from your partner is also considered as cheating. (eg:/ Drugs, illegal gambling, lies, or any other wrong things that you do behind your partner's back)

Lastly, coming out with an excuse in each and every points mentioned above to cover up the fact that you are obviously cheating, is also part of the cheating plan.

If you cheated in any way and got caught by your partner, don't even bother to try to explain. Just let them go unless you really wanna change after the possible one and only chance is given to you. But get ready, because once the trust is gone, the whole relationship will be in a mess for a period of time until the trust is gained back after you've proved to him/her that you're gonna change for the better for good, and it's gonna take really really long for the trust to be gained back.

Action speaks louder than words

It's gonna be really tiring for both sides by trying and trying to gain back the trust, and it's not gonna be easy. But once u break the trust for the second time either before or after the previous trust is gained back, all the effort that you both put in trying to gain it back will be gone the second you're caught. A second chance onwards is a bonus. Don't take it for granted.

Get this right into your mind people, cheating is not as simple as it seems. And just to add on by a friend of mine after reading this post, cheating is also defined as "to deceive" as well, and not only when there's physical contact. Emotional cheating is also considered as cheating as well.

Why cheat? Just stay/be single and you can do everything freely without any burden or worries! The best part is, you don't have to be selfish and hurt anyone except yourself (which you might not even feel the hurt)

#justsaying